Monday, November 24, 2014

2014-11-24 Egbert's new home


The Egbert's new home in progressing. Michelle sent a couple of photos of the inside and this photo of the outside of the home. Their current home is now listed, but there hasn't been much early interest. Our banker e-mailed to say that he wanted to pledge some of our assets to allow a bridge loan to the Egberts for the new house. When they sell their current home our assets will be released.

We've loaned money to Conleys for Jeff to buy an accounting franchise when they moved to Colorado Springs. This loan was paid off with interest.

We've loaned Egberts money to finance their dental practice in Colorado Springs. Hans pays principal and interest faithfully each month.

We've loaned money to Christensens to allow them to get a lower interest rate on their home refinance in 2013. They pay us interest each month.

We've loaned the Fords money to move to their home on Browning, to pay for remodeling, and to dig them out of a financial black hole. They paid us $3,000 but no interest or other principal. I suppose we'll need to note all this in our will.

2011-11-20 Grandma Donna breaks her hip

I had the inspiration to call the Legacy Care Center to see about visiting Grandma Donna, and the receptionist told me that she had been taken to Riverton Hospital the day before because she fell and broke her hip. She had surgery to repair her hip and is dizzy and disoriented. Her adopted son, Rob Buttle, was at the hospital, but he was more interested in telling me woes than telling me what he knew about Donna's condition.

Donna thought that she had fallen two months ago. She also said she had to wait for 5 years to have her teeth fixed. She wanted to go back to Legacy as soon as possible and didn't want to be moved to a rehab place.

Donnalyn moved her to the Rocky Mountain Rehabilitation Center on 12600 South and 3400 West where she will stay for at least the next six weeks. She can't put weight on her hip for that long (or longer).

2014-11-20 Jack plays Egeus in Shakespeare's Midsummer Nights Dream

Jack played the role of Egeus in Midsummer Nights Dream at the 6th grade Shakespeare festival at Bonneville Elementary. This is Melissa's last elementary school Shakespeare play. Thomas was in 'As You Like It', Joshua was in Midsummer Nights Dream, and Benjamin was in Twelfth Night. The school with all its volunteers does a wonderful job of putting the play together.

Egeus -  Hermia’s father, who brings a complaint against his daughter to Theseus: Egeus has given Demetrius permission to marry Hermia, but Hermia, in love with Lysander, refuses to marry Demetrius. Egeus’s severe insistence that Hermia either respect his wishes or be held accountable to Athenian law places him squarely outside the whimsical dream realm of the forest.

2014-11-15 Will's basketball team wins in Idaho

Coray drove his basketball team to Idaho for a weekend tournament. They came away as the winners with some grousing from the other teams who complained that Lone Peak was too good. Will sprained his ankle which is still sore a week later. Coray is a terrific coach and enjoys his associations with the boys. Why hasn't he been in young men's since he was released as scout master?

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

2014-10-31 Missionary English classes

While we were helping to teach an English class in Italy, Thomas is also engaged in teaching an English class in Japan. Teaching English seems like a great way to get to know people without the pressure of conversion. Some of the best conversations with Italians for us were with the English students including
Raffaele - who found our apartment
Martina - who is investigating the church
Stefano - who went with us to Napoli
Federica - who took a job in London in a pub
Marianna - who picked us up at the airport with Martina and Federica


English classes started with a prayer and ended with a spiritual thought and prayer. After a lesson on how to say a prayer in English our attendance really dropped off. Not too much interest in church related instruction.

The missionaries are not well trained in English instruction, although the have a lesson plan prepared by the mission office.

Monday, November 17, 2014

2014-11-11 Elizabeth and Anna have a cello concert

Elizabeth and Anna played a number of pieces on the cello accompanied by their teacher. Anna played all of the Suzuki cello numbers by memory. Elizabeth played a long piece from memory by Bach. It was an ideal recital because only our grandchildren performed, we sat on comfortable sofas, it was pretty short, we were proud of their performances.

2014-11-04 Melissa is elected to the SLC School Board!


We are thrilled that Melissa won a seat on the Salt Lake School board replacing Laurel Young. Melissa campaigned diligently, had her ups and downs, managed to not spend too lavishly, met a lot of people, had wonderful support of her friends and neighbors. We're sure that she will do an admirable job as a board member. Laurel could not have been more complementary about Melissa and was thrilled to be able to turn over her board seat to Melissa.

Friday, August 1, 2014

Melissa Ford - school board candidate

Stitch by Stitch 

School-board candidate Melissa Ford emphasizes that simple acts can lead to big changes

Melissa Ford with her husband and four children
  • Melissa Ford with her husband and four children
A stack of ratty street-urchin pants stands as a testament to Melissa Ford's school involvement.
Ford learned how to sew the pants when she helped design costumes for a Clayton Middle School production of Oliver!
"I probably made a hundred pairs of orphan pants," Ford says.
Ford, a mother of four who's campaigning to represent the east bench in District 6 of the Salt Lake City School Board, also has more experience in parent-teacher associations than you can shake a ruler at. And she says her involvement in the school system has helped her learn that small changes can make a big impact, including fostering a culture of involvement and success between students and parents.
Those orphan pants and other behind-the-scenes volunteer efforts, Ford says, helped the annual Clayton play become more than an average school production featuring a handful of students. In recent years, productions have included as much as half of the student body, which averages about 750 students annually, performing in The Little MermaidJoseph & the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat and others.
It's a simple way that students, parents and the community can get more involved and strengthen ties with one another, Ford says, and it's those kinds of efforts that she would prioritize if she were on the school board.
Ford is keeping her focus hyper-local, she says, unlike her opponent Weston Clark, a former chair of the Salt Lake County Democratic Party, who'd like to use the position to lobby the Legislature or other levels of government.
"It's not supposed to be about politics," Ford says "It's about the students."
Ford has been active in her four children's schools since she moved to Salt Lake City in 1999, when her husband's work brought him from Washington, D.C., to the Beehive State.
She says she first realized the value of school boards in the early 2000s, when the district sought to change the boundaries for the local elementary school but not the middle or high schools. It was a small move on the boundary map and would only have affected about 10 kids in Ford's neighborhood, but she thought it would be a negative for those kids—including her own—to have to say goodbye to their elementary school friends and make all new friends at the next grade.
So, Ford says, she gathered some signatures, told the district that the boundary shift wasn't fair, and the board agreed.
"Every thing I've done involved with the schools since then has been to give me the experience to serve on the school board effectively," Ford says.
And she's done plenty with schools in her district since then. She's served on the Bonneville Elementary Parent Teacher Association since 2000, including as vice president, and has been co-president of the Clayton Middle School Association since 2012. Since 2011, she's been active with the Salt Lake City School District Community Council for East High, which decides how to spend state trust-lands money, and has been the council's chairwoman since 2012. She also coordinates ski and snowboard trips every season for students from Bonneville Elementary School, is active in the East High Football Boosters Club and has also been involved in the Joint Educator Evaluation Committee.
Having kids in the school system has helped her stay passionate about education, and so have the perks of being active in the community, she says—like the salary paid out in smiles and high-fives from elementary school kids.
Ford has strong opinions about the Common Core, citing a fondness for benchmark standards while also not being crazy about penning in how teachers instruct their classrooms, but says she's realistic about what she and the board could do about it.
"Like it or not, I don't feel like as a board member, I would be able to change the fact that Utah has adopted the Common Core," Ford says in a statement on her website. "But the school board should and will influence the actual curriculum that is being taught to ensure that allstudents reach the benchmarks of the Common Core."
But Ford says that being realistic about impact doesn't mean that anyone's throwing up their hands—her recent experience with Clayton Middle School, she says, is an example of how simple programs can have ripple effects in the community.
When Ford came on as co-president of the Clayton Middle School PTA, she says, the association's budget was about $11. There wasn't even money enough for a fundraiser, so she helped roll out a Cash for Clayton campaign that told parents that if every one of them donated $20, the association would have more than enough to provide services.
The simple campaign garnered roughly $12,000 that was then able to help fund service efforts, like a Christmas store for students with disabilities and a Community Caring program to stop bullying and promote inclusiveness in the school. Money also went to support the annual school play that includes more than 300 students acting, singing in the choir and helping in other roles.
The annual production, Ford says, is a perfect example of a program that's helped promote a culture of involvement. The play helps students who might not otherwise be performers get out of their shells and gain confidence, Ford says, and also involves the community. The play often has more than 100 volunteers—and not just parents, Ford says, but also those who are simply active in local theater and arts.
Ford says that parents can also get involved in small ways that can have a ripple effect. She's an advocate of registration forms that offer a variety of volunteer options for parents, whether larger responsibilities like supporting the play or simply committing to one hour a year. Starting somewhere with volunteering is the perfect way to help parents get more involved with their students' academic life, she says.
Ford's seen this all firsthand, and says that one of her favorite memories from her children's education is when her son played King Trident in the Clayton Middle School production of The Little Mermaid. It brought her otherwise reserved and somewhat shy son out of his shell, she says, showed how much a community can do for their children, and also reminded her of where home is.
"I've been here in Salt Lake City only 14 years," Ford says. "I didn't grow up here, I didn't go to high school here. I wasn't connected before, but this is my home now ... because of that involvement."

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Jon C. Carpenter
1938 ~ 2014
Jon Carvel Carpenter passed away at home May 25th, 2014 after a courageous battle with cancer.
He was born January 19th, 1938 in Washington, D.C. to Samuel and Kathleen Carpenter. He married Donna Kay Richards of Logan, Utah on May 1st, 1962 in the Salt Lake temple.
Jon received his undergraduate degree from the University of Utah in 1962 and earned an MBA from Santa Clara University. His 33-year career at IBM took him and his family to Helena, MT, San Jose and San Francisco, CA, Austin, TX, and New Canaan, CT. He retired to Deep Creek, MD and Salt Lake City, UT.
As an avid outdoorsman, Jon worked at Grand Canyon National Park as a teenager. He went on to serve many years as a B.S.A. scoutmaster (receiving the Silver Beaver), and enjoyed back-country hiking, from the High Sierras in California to Mt. Kilimanjaro in Africa.
Jon served for 2½ years as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Finland. He later served as a bishop, high councilor and in many other capacities. In 2011 he and Donna Kay returned to Finland to serve as senior missionaries in the Helsinki temple.
Jon is preceded in death by his oldest son, Rick Carpenter, and is survived by his wife, Donna Kay, his four children, Scott (Diane) Carpenter, Curt (Hedi) Carpenter, Emily (JP) Hanson, Katie (Jon) Groberg, and 15 grandchildren. He is also survived by his brother, Craig Carpenter, and his sister, Kathie Coon.
A memorial will be held at the LDS Ensign Peak ward building, 125 East North Sandrun Road, Salt Lake City, Saturday, May 31st at 10 am for visiting with friends and family. Service at 11:30 am.

Published in Salt Lake Tribune on May 29, 2014

Sunday, May 25, 2014

2014-05-25 Rose Sutton visits

We picked up Rose from the airport and she stayed overnight before leaving for her mission in Rome Italy

Thursday, May 22, 2014

2014-05-21 Yorktown/ Kitchawan Ward reunion

We met a few members from Yorktown Ward at Clayton and Denise Williams's home on the occasion of Andy and Lori Phillips being in town for a family funeral. A list of people we met: April and Don Stirling, Kevin Greenlese, Sharon and Bob Lape with Rob and Alice Lape, Les and Cindy Ward, Dave and Lena Clark, Kathleen and Franklin West, Alex Mojica, Tony Capone, Daniel Carlisle, Lisa ?, Steve Richardson.






Friday, May 9, 2014

2014-05-03 Sarah is baptized

 Sarah was baptized by her father on May 3, 2014. She was excited and glowing - partly from the fuss we were making over her - but mostly because she was doing the right thing. It's a wonderful blessing to have grandchildren being taught the doctrine of Christ by their parents who lead by example. Sarah was surrounded by both sets of grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins and a group of wonderful friends.

Abby led the music and offered the closing prayer. Will spoke on the Gift of the Holy Ghost using props. I 'm sure he was helped by his mom and dad.

After the baptism we had a doughnut buffet at the Christensen's. Doug Christensen asked Sarah if she had had time to sin. She giggled and said 'no'. He taught her that all of us would sin, and that's why continued repentance is important.




Friday, April 18, 2014

2014-04-12 Justin is baptized




Justin was baptized in Colorado Springs on April 12, 2014. We flew to Denver on April 11 and returned to SLC on April 14. Ashley conducted the music and played a piano solo of 'I am a child of God'. Katelyn spoke on baptism. Grandma said the opening prayer. The grandfathers were witnesses. It was a family affair, enjoyable and spiritual.

Justin is our 15th grandchild to be baptized. We're thankful for faithful children and their spouses who are raising and teaching our grandchildren.

While we were visiting we went to watch Ashley play volleyball at the YMCA, we watched all the Egberts swim at Lifetime Fitness, we had our teeth cleaned and inspected by Hans, we enjoyed holding Liam, and we generally enjoyed seeing the Egbert family.


Monday, March 31, 2014

2014-03-26 Bill Jefferies passed away

William Lloyd Jefferies(1943 - 2014)




Bill is my cousin Becky's husband who died of prostate cancer.


William Lloyd Jefferies "Incredibill" of Holladay, Utah, left mortality on March 26, 2014 after a long and courageous battle with cancer. Bill was born December 15, 1943 in Salt Lake City, Utah to Eva Anderson and Donald Jefferies. He graduated from Granite High School and served an LDS mission to the Southern States. He was an active member of the Holladay 3rd Ward where he served in many capacities. Bill had a gift for flourishing in life's harshest climates. In general, he was the bravest man we knew -- never quitting and always accomplishing in spite of any obstacle that was put in his path. His larger-than-life personality, effortless smile and a big heart won many friends. He had an amazing ability to look beyond what was and envision what could be. This special trait aided him in becoming a very gifted real estate developer who revitalized many real estate projects throughout the valley. He always said that if a person chose something they loved for a career they would never work a day in their life -- and he never did. Bill had an extreme passion for dirt bike riding, particularly with his friends at Utah Trail Machine Association (UTMA). He loved his many excursions down the Baja Peninsula and through Mexico on his bike. Even though there were many, he called each one a "trip of a lifetime." Bill's greatest joy was his family. He loved hosting his monthly family get-together "Ham Sunday" where he would cook, joke and play with his children and grandchildren. Nearest to his heart was his sweet wife Becki. Together they shared many adventures during their 36 years of marriage.
His legacy will continue through his wife, siblings (Wes, Marianne, and Joycelyn,) six children (Renan and Amy, Rhett and Marci, Raechel and Todd, Resh and Lindsey, Rock and Zeny, and Ryder and Lindsey), 13 (soon to be 15) grandchildren and his trusty dog Callie. In death, he is happily reunited with his parents, his good friend Graydon Briggs, and many other family members.
Funeral services will be held Tuesday April 1, 2014 at 12:00 p.m. at the Holladay 3rd Ward Chapel, 4568 Holladay Blvd., Holladay, Utah. Viewing will be held Monday from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Wasatch Lawn Mortuary, 3401 South Highland Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah and Tuesday from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. at the church. Interment will be at Wasatch Lawn Cemetery.
Special thanks to Dr. Neeraj Agarwal, Jared Thorley, NP and the wonderful staff at the Huntsman Cancer Institute. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Huntsman Cancer Institute in Bill's name.

Thursday, March 20, 2014

2014-02-28 to 03-17 Jordan - Israel - Cairo

We traveled to Jordan (Petra), Israel (Jerusalem/ Galilee/ Masada/ Dead Sea/ Capernaum/ Cesarea / Tel Aviv) and Cairo with three couples in our study group. Sabins and McConkies didn't join us, and that was a good thing since they couldn't have kept up the pace and the walking required. Our travel group also included Jeff and Nancy Flamm, Mitch and Kim Olsen (Kim is Kelvin Cullimore's sister), Wes and Jody Innis, Mark and Sally Dietlein, Clark and Nora Burgess and Vanne Ashby (Clark's sister). Some trip highlights: time alone in the Garden of Gethemane, the Garden Tomb, floating in the Dead Sea, the synagogue at Capernaum, and others. Some things I never knew about before - Petra (a wonder of the ancient world and home of the Nabateans) Zippori (where Jesus would have labored with Joseph as a youth and young man).

Thursday, February 27, 2014

2014 Mountain Hosting at Brighton


I worked the season at Brighton Ski Resort as a Mountain Host for 20 days. Spock is the boss and I was able to get on the team because of his contact with Melissa who manages the Bonneville Elementary Ski Program. My daily assignment includes greeting people at the ticket window, helping people fill out rental papers in the rental shop, helping ski school kids get on the Explorer lift, and skiing with the intent of making sure guests are enjoying themselves. It's a minimal wage job for which I am paid a season pass.

My skis and boots were stolen from our garage and I was able to replace them at the Brighton rental shop.

Melissa and Mindy skied one day with me. Great fun.

Monday, February 24, 2014

2014-02-22 Play practice/ Gymnastics/ Birthday lunch/ Basketball/ Progressive dinner

Saturday was an unusually busy day starting with a chance to see a dress rehearsal for Benjamin playing King Triton in the Little Mermaid at Clayton. We'll be in Israel when the actual performances occur and we're sorry to miss it. The dress rehearsal gave us an idea of the scope and role for Benjamin, a main character. The scenery and costumes are amazing.

 We raced to Park City to see 3 of Elizabeth's 4 events at a level 7 gymnastics meet. She placed 2nd in each event and 1st overall. Consistency was her strength.
 Following  the meet we went to Little America for lunch with Louise, LaRue, Becky Stauffer Jefferies, and Janet to celebrated their birthdays. I made a quick trip to Stone Ground Bakery to pick up the rolls for the ward progressive dinner. We rushed home to prepare for the dinner and then went to watch Will and Jack's teams play against each other. Lone Peak won, but both cousins played hard, often guarding each other.

Paula was the organizer for the progressive dinner which turned out great for the 90 or so who participated.

2014-01 Hawaii

 We spent 9 days in Kauai and Maui with Bonnie and Henry Yeates. In Kauai we stayed at Nancy and Jeff's condo in Koloa Landing and enjoyed some boogie boarding, sunshine, and biking. We also spent a morning on a boat Jeff arranged with friend, Aaron, with whom Jeff does Crossfit training. Aaron's step son dove off a cliff impressing us all.
Jeff continues to labor to sell units.
We flew to Maui with the Yeates and spent time seeing the sights and boogie boarding. I had a swimsuit 'incident' at the beach during a very high surf time. We drove to the north end of the island to watch as experienced surfers rode 40 foot waves.


Monday, January 13, 2014

2014-01 Fred Heath and Jackson

My younger brother Fred moved with his partner to North Carolina a couple of years ago. Laurel does a good job of keeping in contact. At a Heath sibling dinner at our home on January 11, 2014 we tried to call him to say hello, but his home phone is not in service and he didn't answer his cell phone. Fred suffers from emphysema resulting from years of smoking. He really enjoys Jackson, his son with Andrean, and only child.

Fred is sitting on my father's lap in this 1957 photo of our family.

Sunday, January 12, 2014

2014-01 Rise and Fall of the Third Reich

I listened to the book on CD while driving in my truck. I was thoroughly disgusted with the evil that one bad man can perpetrate on the human race. His sins were scarlet, but perhaps too scarlet for forgiveness. My friend Peter's family left Germany in the post war nightmare. They were fortunate to be able to relocate to the US. When I was in junior and senior high school Peter's grandmother would speak to him in German and Peter would answer in English.